Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Christmas!

I always worry that the anticipation of Christmas will be more then the excitement of the day and that it will be anti climatic. I was glad to be proved wrong this year. We had a great day and the January 'down' hasn't hit yet (I also haven't gone back to work yet, 2 weeks off might not be a good thing!)

We spent time on Christmas Eve cleaning our house and getting ready for the party. We had several friends over for the Allen tradition appetizer and desert dinner. We read the Christmas story and the kids acted out the nativity scene. It was fun and we all had a good time.
On Christmas morning the kids actually slept in. I couldn't wait any longer and I woke them up at 7:30. I had a great time watching everyone open their presents. The kids were all very pleased with all their gifts - except Lilah. She had a hard day. She wasn't really interested in opening her presents or in playing with her toys - she just kept getting into everyone else's opened toys. The kids were having a hard time with her and when she got yelled at she sobbed. She spend most of the day crying and wanting things she couldn't have. Not a fun day. I spent all morning putting a Barbie house together and adding 51 stickers! I spent all afternoon making rolls and side dishes for our delicious Christmas dinner at a friends house. It was good to have so many friends around since we couldn't be with family.


Thank you Grammy and Pops for the new PJ's


Thank you Aunt Stephanie and Uncle Michael for the Uno Moo game - it was a hit.


Thank you Grandma and Grandpa for Calvin's new shirt and his sharks and for Lilah's stroller

Thank you for all the other gifts I don't have pictures of - Mom, I am excited to finally use my rice cooker this week!

Mike was able to surprise me despite my accidental discovery of an email I wasn't suppose to see and I now have a beautiful Mark Mabry print being framed. I can't wait to hang it up. I'm so glad they finally offered the 10 Virgins for sale! If you haven't seen 'Reflections of Christ' you are missing out. I have the DVD of how it was created if you want to see it!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

More Christmas Fun!

Yes, we have more Christmas activities to report on! We went to Washington DC so that I could have my turn at the temple and then show the kids the 32nd annual Festival of Lights at the visitors center. We all enjoyed the amazing lights, the large nativity outside, and the room full of different nativities from around the world inside. They also had some great Christmas trees and all the regular visitor center 'stuff'.

We've also continued on with our 12 days of Service. We've made goodies and delivered plates to friends and neighbors (during a snow storm), picked out a canned good each to drop off at the food bank, 'your choice', and picked out one toy to donate to a charity. Calvin continues to amuse us with his offerings. For his choice to do something nice he tucked Anna Elise into bed. She was terrified he was going to kiss her - Mike wouldn't let him - it was suppose to be nice! His first choice of a toy to give away was one of Madeline's toys, then he picked a piece of his train track, then a broken (I mean REALLY broken car). After telling him no over and over he finally picked out one of his good cars to donate. The girls tend to be more cooperative. I have to say it's been funny to watch this process.






Wednesday, December 16, 2009

12 Days of Service


We are counting down the last 12 days until Christmas with small acts of service. We started on Sunday with making Christmas cards(see picture). We've made someone else's bed, let someone else go first, and my favorite so far, everyone had to say something nice about everyone else in the family. We limited it to things about a person's character or things they do, you couldn't include physical attributes. This was hard for the kids. Anna Elise caught on but Calvin didn't. His first response was that he liked Daddy's eyeballs, Anna Elise's belly button, Madeline's voice, Lilah's ears, and Mommy's big feet because they looked funny. We made him try again.

Anyway, I have been really missing my family lately and I thought that I would say something nice about every one in my family.

So we'll start at the top with my Dad, Dad works hard! I love the work ethic he taught us. Dad also plays hard and I have lots of great memories of our vacations - waterskiing, camping, crabbing, driving to CA, etc.

Mom is always serving others. I remember her making meals, helping others, serving in her callings, and yet never making her kids feel neglected. Everyone always asked me if I felt left out because of all the kids in our family and I never did - I always felt cared for. Mom is good at taking care of her family and others and never complains!

Trina is so much fun. She is always laughing. I remember all the practical jokes she played on us while growing up, like locking us out of the house and throwing cold water on us in the shower. Trina still likes to laugh and have fun and I enjoy playing card games with her. She has lots of fun with her family and I think it's cool some of the things she is able do with her kids.

Ross is so good. We used to call him our future General Authority. He was our 'perfect example' in those family reporting sessions. We were always teasing him about it, but I am serious. Ross is just a good person and I love him for that.

Stephanie never does anything halfway, if she decides to do something then watch out because she is going to do it right! It's been fun hearing about all the preparations she is making for this new little baby, like the crocheting (did you ever think Steph would crochet a blanket?). Stephanie you have a lot of drive and that is so admirable.

Betsy is the quintessential homemaker. She is the mom I always thought I would be but now realize I won't ever be. She cans and freezes garden fruits and vegetables, makes all her own crafts, furniture, curtains, etc. She cooks dinner for her family and takes good care of her kids and I envy her proximity to mom. You're amazing Betsy and I envy you sometimes.

Janet is so open in her blogs. I love reading them Janet. She may not share everything she does or that goes on, but she is very open with her feelings and I think that is great. I also admire that she is still in school and thinking about more school. I know she has never liked school but she does it anyway and that says a lot about her. (You're also VERY entertaining without even trying to be ;) )

Nancy is just Nancy. From the time you were born you were social. Nancy talks to people she doesn't know, she has tons of friends, she dates lots of boys at one time (boys that she talks to in her classes, which one of us girls EVER talked to boys in our class?) and makes people feel loved. You are a people person and I am in awe of your social abilities!

I love my family and I miss you. I wish we were closer and could see each other more often. I don't think I ever tell my family how amazing they are. I always think they are really cool but never tell them and that is so sad! I see qualities in each of you that I wish I had. I sometimes feel intimidated by all of you! I really struggle to be a better person and I have lots of examples to help me! I love you!

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Our Christmas Outing

Yesterday evening we decided to check out a couple of the Christmas displays in Richmond. We started downtown where a couple of the large office buildings host some city lights. There are lots of trees decorated, a huge (30-40 foot) Christmas tree decorated, hanging balls, and tons of white wicker reindeer decked out in lights. Inside the buildings are cute displays, more trees, and an amazing miniature train. The kids loved it.

Then we headed to one of the outdoor malls. We watched ice skaters on a small skating rink (it's not ice but apparently feels like ice when you skate), more displays and at 7pm SNOW! The kids' obvious delight in the fake snow almost (but not quite) made me want real snow.

Anna Elise said we were the best mom and dad ever! Who knew it would be so easy to make the kids happy?








Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Ginger Bread Houses

Tonight for FHE (yes, I know it's Tuesday) we made gingerbread houses. The kids had
a great time decorating and Lilah had fun eating scraps and leftovers thrown her way. I tortured Mike with Mormon Tabernacle Christmas music and thoroughly enjoyed the evening!


Sunday, November 29, 2009

It's begining to look a lot like Christmas!


Mike left early (really early) Friday morning and won't be home until late tonight. To keep everyone's mind off of Daddy's absence we jumped right into getting ready for Christmas. We decorated the house, put up and decorated the tree(only two broken glass balls from Lilah - so far), pulled out all the toy nativities that we have, bought a poinsettia (I love them!), and today after church made ginger cookies with red and green sugar on top. It's so fun to start celebrating early! The only problem is the kids ask me a hundred times a day when we get to open presents.



Friday, November 27, 2009

Thanksgiving



On Wednesday we prepared for Thanksgiving by making turkey hats! The kids had fun making them and I thought they looked very cute!

We also had a special FHE that night and made gratitude lists. Each of the kids had to list two things they were grateful for every year of life. I've included their lists below.

On Wednesday and Thursday the kids spent a lot of time outside with their dad - playing, riding bikes, and cleaning up leaves.

We hosted Thanksgiving dinner at our house with Mike's brother Sean, Rachel and little Ginny and Rachel's brother Rob and his family. We had a table of 10, two highchairs, and little Ginny. Everybody ate until they were stuffed! The kids played and the adults had a good visit. It was a good day.

I am so thankful for all of my blessings. I'm grateful we have this time of year to reflect on our blessings and express gratitude. I am very grateful for family. I love my 'little' family so much. I'm thankful for a loving and fun husband. I'm grateful for the family that I grew up in. I'm thankful for the means we have to communicate even though I am clear across the country from them. I'm thankful they could all be together even if I couldn't be there. I'm thankful for Mike's family and the way he was raised. He has very loving parents. I am thankful that his family can all be together tomorrow for Jennifer's wedding! I will miss seeing them all and Anna Elise is sad to miss seeing Jenny's dress!

Madeline's list of 4
my family (she named all of us)
ME!
my class
coloring pictures

Calvin's list of 8
Heavenly Father
Jesus
our house
our garden
turkey hats
my family
my bike
my clothes

Anna Elise's list of 12
Jesus
the whole world
our house
food
electricity
my family
Mrs. Byrne (her teacher)
my bed
long hair
my toys
singing and dancing
my body

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Leaves

See those two little piles of leaves on the front lawn? One on each side of our brick path...



Yes, those two piles right there (there used to be three).

They are Calvin and Anna Elise, waiting to surprise Uncle Sean, Aunt Rachel, and their cousins Morgan and Ginny.

The kids love to be buried in the leaves!

The sunset that night.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Madeline's New 'Do!

Madeline had a haircut, both her and mom 'helped'. One of us cut the back and one of us cut the front. Which was which? I do have to say she cut it pretty even, I didn't have to do much trimming when I 'fixed' it. I'd just not take quite so much off the next time...you certainly couldn't take more off!






The beautiful artwork on the wall in the background is hers.

Friday, November 6, 2009

The Bike Hills

We live really close to a BMX bike course. The kids like to ride their bikes there, but the hills
are pretty tough for little kids with training wheels. Calvin broke his training wheels off a while ago and has now perfected his bike riding skills enough to go on the 'bike hills' all by himself.



The video was taken with Mike's phone, so not the highest quality...

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Halloween

The kids had a great time dressing up this year! We were able to go to two "trunk-or-treats".
We were all costumed out by the time Halloween was actually here!

Anna Elise was able to wear her cousin Talia's hand-me-down poodle skirt. She and Calvin
were 50's sock hoppers, Madeline was a ballerina, and Lilah was a pink poodle.



Hey Eli, do you see Calvin's eyes? They both work just fine now! =-)



Thursday, October 29, 2009

Chatterbox

Lilah has started talking. She has been making noises that sound like words for a little while, but now I think it can be counted as 'talking'. How are these for a babies first words:
  • here you go
  • thank you
  • hot
  • dog
  • a high pitched squealing noise that represents barking (and possibly meowing as well)

She LOVES dogs - she is my first child that really does like dogs, the others pretended to until they actually got within petting distance and then the charade was over and they were terrified!

Lilah has become more ... 'opinionated' and 'verbal' ... and I'm a bit worried about what will be coming out of her mouth next!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Happy, Happy Birthday Anna Elise & Lilah!

We've had two birthdays in the past week.

On Saturday Anna Elise turned 6! She picked to have donuts for her birthday breakfast. We had a Barbie ballerina cake for dessert. She got a mani/pedi kit, glitter, clothes and the new Barbie movie.

On Wednesday Lilah turned 1. She didn't know what was going on, but she LOVES birthday cake and frosting! I picked her cake, so we had triple chocolate cupcakes. She got her first baby, clothes, and a toy. She isn't very good at opening presents yet - but I think Christmas will solve that!

The birthdays were made even more special by having grandma here to help celebrate!



















Grandma Came to Town!

My mom came to visit us for a week. She always comes to help when I have a baby which is very much appreciated, but not necessarily 'fun', this time she came just to play and visit and we had a lot of fun!
We were able to go to Time Out for Women here in Richmond on Friday night and most of Saturday, we went to the beach (which was windy!), to the pumpkin patch, the Yankee Candle store, the park, library, and shopping! We didn't take very many pictures - but we had a good time together!

These pictures are from the Yankee Candle store.